Despite Being Very Supportive, OFW Nurse in Canada Was Still Called 'Makasarili' by her very Own Family!


Here's a heartbreaking story of an OFW nurse in Canada who despite all her efforts to help her family, was still despised and looked down by a family member.

In an anonymous letter posted by the well-known personal finance Facebook page PESO SENSE, the depressed OFW nurse narrated how despite her financial support for her family, she was still called by his older brother as 'makasarili' or selfish.

As she narrated, she is already married minding her own family yet she never forgets to provide financial help to her siblings. One time, she said, she gave a whopping P200,000 to their youngest brother to finance his quail eggs business that eventually went bankrupt. They never heard a word from her. Also, she aided a family grocery store business with another P30,000.

Additionally, she gave another P25,000 for that same business. And there are several instances where she would buy her eldest sibling some fancy gifts like Nike shoes, G Shock watches, etc... She said that she didn't give him any cash gift since he has a stable job.

However, everything went haywire when her family decided to buy a car.

The plan was to loan P200,000 to be shouldered by her Kuya while the OFW nurse would provide the remaining P150,000. Unfortunately, she did not approve of this and to her surprise her big brother was too upset and started calling her 'makasarili'.

Here's the ingrateful text message of her Kuya:

ANO NASISIYAHAN KA NYAN??? IKAW UBOD NG GINHAWA MGA KAPATID MO NAGHIHIRAP??? MASAGANA BUHAY MO. NABIBILI MO GUSTO MO. SI DITCHE MADAMI NG PROBLEMA DINAGDAGAN MOPA. BINIBIGAY MO SAMEN LAHAT NG HINDI MO KAILANGAN AT MGA SOBRA LANG SA LUHO MO. PRIORITY MULANG SARILI MO. HINDI KA PWEDENG ASAHAN NG PAMILYA MAKASARILI KA.. PAUWIIN MO SI INANG AT KHIT MAGKAMATAYAN KAMI WAG MUNA KAMI PAKIBALITAAN. PALIGAYAHIN K NG MGA GAMIT AT PERA MO.. MAKA SARILI KA
Source: Facebook


Meanwhile here's the original post courtesy of PESO SENSE Facebook page:

Isa po akong nurse dito sa Canada...
Tumutulong po ako sa mga kapatid ko. Ang totoo nga po nyan 2015 nagbigay ako ng 200k sa bunsong lalaki namin sinundan ko para puhunan nia sa pugo. Nalugi po yun. Hinayaan ko nalang. Last year nagbigay po ako ng puhunan 30k para sa maliit ng groceries store..
Last December umuwi ako binigyan ko nanaman siya ng 25k pangdagdag phunan. Tapos ung panganay naman na lalaki namin kahit ano ipabili binibili ko po like nike shoes g shock or anything na afford ko hnd ko xa binibigyan ng pera kc may stable job naman xa.
Ngaun po gusto nila ibili ko sila ng sasakyan... ang gusto po magloan ung panganay n lalaki ng 200k ako naman 150k... eh may asawa nrin po ako may sarili na akong buhay dito.. at dahil hindi ko po napagbigyan ang mga hiling na sasakyan.
Ito po ang message ng kuya ko sa akin galit na galit keso makasarili daw po ako.. ako na po nagpapaaral sa isang anak ng kuya ko s private school 30,000 tuition fee.. nakatira na sa bahay sa ls pinas for free ako po may ari ng lupa sa ate ko ang bahay.. tapos makasarili parin daw ako. Nakakasama lang po talaga ng loob na parang ang gusto nila patayin ko sarili ko kakatrabho habang sila nagpapakasarap sa pinas.
Ano po ba nag maipapayo niyo kapeso... nakakstress po ang ganitong mensahe na narereciv ko sa araw araw.

Moral support flooded the comments on this post, most of them sympathizing to the unfortunate fate of this OFW nurse.

What's your take on this story? Do you think her kuya is really out of the way for doing this to her? Leave your comment below...

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